Do you notice when you walk into your yoga space to practice that not every person looks exactly the same as you? Some people may be taller, shorter, thinner, heavier, younger, older!! Some physical attributes may be an advantage in some poses and a detriment in others. It’s quite reasonable to conclude that if you look different physically that you’re not going to look exactly the same in asana. Don’t try to emulate anyone else in the class, be content and celebrate your own uniqueness. Remember the famous line from The Life of Brian “Your all individuals”. Even if you can mirror someone else in class I can guarantee you will be having a completely different experience.
Santosa (contentment) defined in the 8 limbs of yoga of Patanjali. This niyama seems to have a great deal of significance of late. Let’s face it yoga is all about getting over yourself. Be realistic there are certain poses you may never master, there are certain higher states of mind you will never achieve. Physical, mental and emotional restraints can and will hold you back. Don’t give up but be realistic, remember it’s about the journey not the destination. The selfie era has placed a hole lot of pressure on yogis to “perform” don’t get caught up the “kardashianisation” of yoga. It’s a philosophy of non ego and non competition. I teach yoga to people who can perform asana to perfection but they tell me they would do anything to have quiet mind. I teach classes to people with limited mobility but have great focus, all they want to do is to move with freedom. Please challenge yourself, strive to improve but be content.